“Social activities will be satisfying but don’t neglect
legal documents”. Hmmm… last time
I read my horoscope in India, it told me to “get any inflammation of the skin
investigated immediately” and it turned out my rash was shingles. Maybe I should make sure that I’ll
actually be able to leave the country on this Visa… (if it wasn't for Thailand and more exotic destinations ahead, I'm not sure I'd want to!)
But yesterday’s horoscope was correct in predicting very
satisfying social activities.
After a decent day of teaching, I went for another nice swim (after the
fact, I learned that there’s a girl and guy side of the pool. Another one of India’s many unwritten
rules. Fortunately, I chose the
right one!) then met up with
Sudeep. Sudeep is a mechanical
engineer by trade but works for some bank as part of Infosys and he’s a tattoo
artist on the side. He picked me
up on his motorcycle and we headed into the night! He took me up the same hill for the view of the city- I
think Mysore is even more breathtaking at night, especially because the moon
and the stars were more striking away from the campus lights. After hanging out for a bit, we went to
the rooftop of a nice hotel for drinks and “a bite”. We had fried baby corn, which comes on a stick and looks
like an American corn dog.
So that was fun and I decided I’m a fan of Kingfisher beer. The temperature was perfect, there were
candles on the table and relaxing with a new friend and good conversation was
just what I needed after a fairly hectic week. He’s the first couchsurfer who didn’t complain about Indian
girls… well, I guess he complained about one Indian girl. But that was an ex- who stole all of
his cigarettes as he slumbered.
The gender dynamics here are still pretty strange. The instructor from last year told me he
struggled to get boys working with girls so from the first day, I emphasized
that just like real engineers don’t get to chose who they work with, every one
in this class is expected to work with everyone else and be happy about
it. I change the seats and groups
everyday so now, they’re used to it, even though the girls asked me on the
second day whether they could avoid working with girls. However, during any break, meal,
walking anywhere, the five girls are in a clump, visibly separated from the
thirteen guys. Obviously, my kids
are thirteen and all thirteen year olds are silly. There’s slightly more interaction for people my age but,
considering the segregated swimming pool and from what I hear from Abhi and
Mayukh, girls tend to be very reserved (perhaps bordering on excessively
paranoid) toward guys. All the
guys I met were gentlemen and I doubt it’s justified but there’s a lot of
traditional societal pressures at play.
Today was a good day- the students started building their
bridges and it was nearly impossible to drag them away from working- they
missed juice and cookies entirely this afternoon. I was slightly worried about what the visitor from Indian
Academy of Sciences would think of the class because today, the kids were
vibrating with excitement and she didn’t come at a particularly exciting
time. But she spent a lot of time
talking to students and looking in their notebooks and she couldn’t believe
what they’ve accomplished in just four days and she said she wanted to join the
class! So that was nice to hear.
Some of my oh-so-photogenic munchkins on our architecture field trip |
After class, I crashed Abhi’s laundry party with some of
his friends from last week. He and
Gabriela spent three hours of their Friday night getting me a local number,
which I appreciate. We successfully
activated the international SIM but my AT&T phone rejected the card so Abhi’s
going to give me his extra phone tomorrow to borrow. So I’m close to accomplishing the “impossible” task of a foreigner
getting a local number around here (I don’t know how Indians do it- supposedly
they need a new SIM card for every state!
Ridiculous!).
Anyway, I’m off to enjoy my relaxing Friday night with some
cheesy Indian soap opera (the only channel that decided to work on the TV) while
working on week 1 evaluations- śubha
rātri!
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